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But at that time, it was a monumental moment for us both.And I genuinely think that it was easier for me (and thus, us as a couple), because I was already familiar with different bodies.The stereotypes of how our bodies should be are so fundamental and insidious as to be invisible unless you have reason to look.
With the weight of our cultural fixation on the importance of virginity as the act of a penis penetrating a vagina, I took that – as most of society still does – to be THE sex act of any importance.
But as I was also interested in women, without examining this assumption, I instead simply had a different definition of sex depending on whether I was talking about being with a woman or a man.
What I considered to be sex with a woman was simply classified as foreplay with a man.
I’m about halfway out of the closet; my friends know, my husband knows, but I’ve never told anyone in my family.
Frankly, being bisexual and being a woman isn’t easy, so back when I was in my mid-20s, I gave up on dating women entirely and just decided to admire them from afar.This seems absurd to me now, but I had no framework or vocabulary to describe my experience as a bisexual person.